This page has two sections: 1) Information on the best Internet sites to place free personal ads, and 2) the secret to success with personal ads.
Adult Friendfinder
Dedicated to helping you meet your intimate partner or partners! Adult Friendfinder is the largest, and best, adult personals site. With over one million members, and growing rapidly, they must be doing something right! Features anonymous email, uncensored chat rooms, and very detailed search capabilities by geographic location and erotic interests, so whether you are looking for a sexy girlfriend or an affair, BDSM or bi-couples, or even lesbian leather ladies who live in Laredo, the search engines will sift thru the huge database for you. Features often candid photos of members. People thank me for telling them about this site, it is great! Lots of fun to just browse! It's FREE, easy, and private to join, but you must be over 21 to enjoy the fun.
Category Number of Adult Friendfinder Matches
(as of June 9, 1999)Sex (1 on 1) 378,323
Discreet Relationships 350,803
Erotic Chat/Email/E-sex 296,481
Group Sex (3 or more) 180,713
Other "Alternative" Activities 81,835
Exhibition/Voyeurism 79,778
Bondage & Domination 57,346
Fetishes 55,488
Sadism & Masochism 22,246
Cross-dressing 14,401
Click on any of the links above to go to Adult Friendfinder.
"Dating" FriendFinder
Are you under 21, which means you are too young for Adult Friendfinder, described above? "Dating" Friendfinder is for you! Dedicated to helping people of all ages find new friends for love, romance, dating, pen-pals or favorite activities, from bridge to sports. Features over 200,000 members from all parts of the world. Basic membership is fast, easy and free.
OutPersonals
More than a gay personals site, OutPersonals has advice lines, a relationship magazine, and an image gallery. Over 80,000 active gay members.
Quantity! The more ads you answer, and the more ads you place, the faster you will find someone. Too often, men especially will answer an ad or two, get no response, and conclude that personals are a waste of time. Nothing could be further from the truth. How much time and money does it take to go places looking for someone? How frustrating is it when you strike out? Placing an ad is the most efficient way to find a partner, and you only hear from people who are interested!
Answer many ads, but most importantly, place your own ads, a lot of them. Then let them run, and see what turns up. One reason I admire Adult Friendfinder so much, is that it is structured so that by signing up, you are creating your own personal ad, and for free! Take a look there and see what I mean. The organisers of that site really know what they are doing when it comes to helping people find others with personal ads. I think every single person owes it to himself to have a free Adult Friendfinder membership. You can't lose by signing up, basic membership is free, period. It is not a come-on trial period, it is simply free.
Still need convincing? Here is a testimonial, just one example of the many hundreds of letters I get:
Dear Susan,Hi, I just wanted to drop you a line to say thanks for the short, but very effective advice on your home page. I was one of those guys who concluded personals were a waste of time, but after reading your page I decided to give it another go. Within 24 hours, I've had 3 very promising contacts, and will continue to search.
THANKS!!!!!!!
Rob
If you place enough ads, in enough different places, and answer enough ads, you too will have "promising contacts" for whatever you are looking for. Try it! Go to Adult Friendfinder now!
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